Nope. Don't know a magic formula, but I'm working on it... I do know that I can't expect the kids to ever be responsible for abstract things (like their choices or others' feelings) unless they start with responsibility for concrete things (personal belongings). So we started really small. Just putting away a few toys during clean up time, when we first set up the playroom and there were finally enough spaces to organize all the toys. Then we started adding other age appropriate tasks: taking shoes off at the door and putting them in the basket, helping to fold washcloths (though honestly it's just b/c Addison likes this task) or taking something to the table for me while I'm cooking dinner. And now, another little responsibility. Putting jackets and preschool bags away at the door.
Prior to this, the kids' jackets hung in our laundry room. Because there wasn't space in their dresser and it was more convenient to the door. But now, we have something much better!
At first I wanted to hang the two double coat hooks by the door. Or inside a closet door (all our doors are solid wood, thanks to our older home). But Travis saw the possibility of this bookshelf edge, and a few seconds later I was sold.
Side benefits: I feel like I'm organized, even though I'm not. The kids get to help with their stuff b/c they can reach/hook/unhook unassisted. I gained back some laundry room space. And the kids now have their own "cubby" at home, just like they do at preschool. Hooray for little things that make a big difference!
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